The sad truth about relationships is that they are rarely ever perfect.
A lot of relationships won’t ever have the privilege of seeing itself go all the way because human beings are inherently imperfect, and their imperfections play into the dynamics of the relationship as a whole.
There are lots of cases wherein people fall in and out of love with each other throughout the course of a relationship.
What people have to understand is that so many conditions and variables have to be perfect in order for a relationship to have a fighting chance.
Love alone isn’t enough to sustain a relationship. It takes a lot of commitment, hard work, time, effort, and heaps of good luck.
However, there’s no getting around the fact that people fall out of love with each other. It always hurts whenever that happens.
Dear men,
If you can spot early signs of your girlfriend/wife falling out of love with you, then that will bode better for you in the long run.
1. SHE DOESN’T BOTHER ANYMORE
When a woman stops loving a man, her caring and inquisitive nature dies off; she no longer bothers about what goes on in her man’s life, she doesn’t bother and she hardly cares.
2. SHE NO LONGER FINDS HIM ATTRACTIVE
When a woman is in love, she finds her man super attractive and charming. However, the same cannot be said when she stops loving him; no matter how good-looking he is, she wouldn’t find him attractive once she has lost that desire for him.
3. PHYSICAL INTIMACY DIES OFF
When a woman loses interest in her man, the physical intimacy between them would die off too. She wouldn’t want any form of intimacy from him and she would ward off all intimate advances from her man. These are the common signs a woman show when she’s no longer in love with her man.
4. COMMUNICATION DIES OFF
Even though she might still linger in the relationship with you, if she’s stopped loving you then her communication with you would d.i.e off. Those moments where you both get to talk and laugh for hours would die off and she wouldn’t let you in on what’s going on in her life; you would be like a complete stranger to her.
5. SHE NO LONGER PUTS IN EFFORTS
A woman in love would put in all efforts for her man and the relationship, but when this isn’t the case, she wouldn’t care about the relationship anymore — so she wouldn’t put efforts to make the relationship better or show her man that she cares.
6. SHE’S RARELY MOVED BY YOUR ANTICS
Also, when a woman no longer loves a man, she no longer gets moved by the things he does for her; if she loves him, she would appreciate the little things he does for her and if she doesn’t love him, she wouldn’t appreciate the things he does for her.
7. SHE DOESN’T CARE ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL
This is also a given if a woman has fallen out of love with you. She would do things without minding the repercussions; she no longer cares about how you feel and never bothers to make you happy.
8. THE COMMUNICATION WOULD COME FROM YOU
Like I mentioned earlier, her communication with you would d.i.e off when she no longer loves you, but it doesn’t just end there. She wouldn’t start the communication or make any move to; every form of communication would be from the man and she might never respond.
9. SHE DOESN’T DO ANYTHING SPECIAL ANYMORE
When a woman stops loving a man, she wouldn’t have the desire to do special things for him anymore. She wouldn’t treat him nice, she wouldn’t make him feel loved and she just wouldn’t care.
10. NO ATTENTION
You know how everyone craves attention in a relationship? Everyone loves getting attention from their partners; but when a woman stops loving a man, her attention dies off with the love.