Sometimes we want something so much that we can’t see past our own desires. Our reader’s wife has always dreamed of being a mom, and despite all the signs suggesting otherwise, she’s convinced that her dream is finally coming true.
Our reader shared a story with us.
Thanks for reaching out to us! It's a tricky situation indeed, and we'd like to share some tips that you might find helpful.
Seek professional help.
A professional can help you understand what's going on with your wife. Think about suggesting couples therapy or counseling.
A therapist can give you both a safe space to talk about your feelings and sort things out together. It could also be good for your wife to see a therapist by herself. If things start feeling too tough, reach out to a local doctor who specializes in mental health.
Be patient.
Remember to be patient. It might take some time for your wife to stop thinking she's pregnant. Try to support her emotionally and encourage her to focus on her well-being.
Take her to doctor's appointments for reassurance and clarity. Keep communication open, be honest, but gentle. Remind her that you're there for her no matter what.
Don’t get into arguments with her.
Try not to argue with her, as it can make things worse and drive you apart. Instead, when you have disagreements, try to understand where she’s coming from and work together to find solutions. It’s better to focus on fixing things together than blaming each other. This way, you can maintain a healthy relationship and not end up being divorced.
Gently remind her of looking at the facts.
It’s understandable that she’s excited and hopeful, but it’s important to base decisions and beliefs on solid evidence. Encourage her to seek professional medical advice to clarify any doubts. If she doesn’t want to stick to rational thinking, avoid reminding her of anything. Sometimes, giving her space and time to process things can lead to a clearer perspective.
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