You’re enjoying a fun dinner with friends when the bill finally arrives. Suddenly, the atmosphere shifts — awkward glances, nervous chuckles. Should you split the bill evenly, even if everyone ordered differently, or should each person cover their own meal? It’s a dilemma we’ve all faced, but one Reddit user handled it in a way that left everyone at the table completely stunned.
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Everyone was more or less in agreement:
- I always ask for a separate check when I go out. I am not paying for your food! The fact that they admitted they didn’t intend to pay for their own food would make me never go out with them again. You did nothing wrong. I would send their text admitting they didn’t intend to pay for their own food to anyone who is complaining. Dan is the one who told you to suck it up and come for the evening! © SheiB123 / Reddit
- Is it not possible to ask the waiter for separate checks — i.e., everyone gets their own check for what they ordered — ahead of time? While some people think this is a little tacky, it’s not anywhere near as tacky as ordering a meal that costs five times as much as anyone else’s and expecting them to cover it. © SamSpayedPI / Reddit
- You all know they are manipulating the situation to live an extravagant lifestyle on other people’s dime. Just stop eating out with them so they learn to live within their means. Some people need a hard dose of reality. © Iogwfh / Reddit
- They clearly premeditated this whole event and expected others to take the financial fall for their lifestyle. Hope Dan opens his eyes, but right now, they seem superglued shut. Good for you, though. © Pale_Needleworker924 / Reddit
- This Greg and Susan are not friends. Never were. You used the word “leeches” accurately. And, Dan? Dan is an enabler. He pushed you into going while knowing how Greg and Susan would act and how you felt about it. Dan is not a friend either. © theothermeisnothere / Reddit
- People saying you stuck Dan with a big bill are probably just like these two users, ordering outside their means. I had friends who did this when I was in college, working 2 jobs, technically 3, just to scrape by. I was living on ramen, but they would insist I go out. I’d get a free glass of water and nothing else. I sometimes could’ve ordered the cheapest thing, but they always split the check for both food and drinks and tip (America, so asking to separate the checks is normal and done at many places here). So I just refused to partake. They complained after a couple times, and I was like hey you all know I’m broke, so is it my company you’re wanting or what little money I have?? I no longer talk to any of them. If you go to the next outing, call them out. Ask if they have enough to fully cover what they’re gonna order and if not please order something else. © Bullfrog323 / Reddit
- I’d say you were clever and creative in finding a solution to the well-known leech problem. You didn’t force anyone to do anything, they made their decisions and faced the consequences. If anything, Greg and Susan have only themselves to blame for ordering pricey dishes and expecting everyone else to foot their bill. Dan’s reaction is somewhat understandable, but he knew the risks when he asked you to come. I think a lesson was learned that day, albeit a rather expensive one. © AddisonNaughtyNymph / Reddit