Prince William & Kate Middleton were wa:rned not to have a third child

Kate Middleton seems to have become one of the most beloved members of the Royal Family. Though she is a vital senior working member, the Princess of Wales is also a loving mother-of-three who, togeth

 

Kate Middleton seems to have become one of the most beloved members of the Royal Family. Though she is a vital senior working member, the Princess of Wales is also a loving mother-of-three who, together with Prince William, is endeavoring to raise Prince George, Princess Charlotte, and Prince Louis as in as normal a way as possible.

During her three pregnancies, Kate endured plenty, and unfortunately faced challenging times. She used to reveal that she had a “rotten sickness” during her pregnancy with Prince George, and it was much the same after she fell pregnant with Princess Charlotte.

But according to many reports, while William and Kate Middleton were pondering the issue of having a third child, they, alongside many others, were warned that it might not be a good idea. Luckily, the future king and queen didn’t listen, and Prince Louis was born…

In December 2012, Buckingham Palace made announcement that Prince William and Kate Middleton were expecting their first child. In July the following year, the couple welcomed their firstborn son and future king, Prince George.

 

Kate Middleton was ‘terrified’ after the birth of Prince George

Just hours after George was born, he made his first public appearance in front of a huge crowd outside the Lindo Wing in Paddington, London. His parents were naturally overjoyed, but giving birth to a future king, and foremost her first child, was stressful for Kate Middleton.

Speaking on Giovanna Fletcher’s podcast Happy Mum, Happy Baby, the Princess of Wales told that it was “terrifying” leaving the hospital.

On the podcast, Kate was asked what it was like to welcome a life into this world when she knew thousands of people were already waiting to see the young boy.

“Yeah, slightly terrifying, slightly terrifying, I’m not going to lie. I like to decompartmentalize – what’s the word – compartmentalize, yes, the whole thing.” She also explained that she made a decision to follow in her late mother-in-law Diana’s footsteps and pose on the hospital steps with her little bundle of joy, as per the Mirror.

“Everyone had been so supportive, and both William and I were really conscious that this was something that everyone was excited about, and you know we’re hugely grateful for the support that the public had shown us, and actually for us to be able to share that joy and appreciation with the public, I felt was really important.”

 

“It wasn’t a place I wanted to hang around in”

Kate continued: “But equally it was coupled with a newborn baby, inexperienced parents, and the uncertainty of what that held, so there were all sorts of mixed emotions.”

Fletcher also asked The Princess of Wales if she remembered how long she had between giving birth to George and later posing on the Lindo Wing steps.

“Oh my gosh, I can’t remember. Everything goes in a bit of a blur,” Kate replied.

She concluded: “I think, yeah, I did stay in hospital overnight. I remember it was one of the hottest days and nights with huge thunderstorms, so I didn’t get a huge amount of sleep, but George did, which was really great. I was keen to get home because, for me, being in hospital, I had all the memories of being in hospital because of being sick so it wasn’t a place I wanted to hang around in. So, I was really desperate to get home and get back to normality.”

Ultimately, William, Kate, and the other royals aren’t more or less human than anybody else. Indeed, the Princess of Wales faced the same struggles as many other mothers during her pregnancy.

In 2012, when she was pregnant with George, Kate was diagnosed with hyperemesis gravidarum, acute morning sickness. The Princess was even forced to go to the hospital, an experience she recalled as “rotten.”

Kate had the same experience while pregnant with Princess Charlotte and Prince Louis. In 2014, she even had to cancel a royal tour due to her diagnosis.

Kate Middleton revealed she “quite liked” labor

During a visit in 2023 to the Orchards Centre in Kent, the Princess of Wales made a decision to open up about her experience with acute morning sickness.

As per the Daily Express, Kate spoke to a father whose wife went through the same thing, telling him: “I went through that. I know what that feels like.”

 

In 2020, as a guest on Giovanna Fletcher’s podcast Happy Mum, Happy Baby, Kate opened up further on her condition.

“[It was] utterly rotten. I was really sick,” she said. “I wasn’t eating the things I should be eating and yet the body was still able to take all the goodness from my body and to grow new life, which I think is fascinating.”

“William didn’t feel he could do much to help and it’s hard to see you’re suffering without actually being able to do anything about it.”

Kate continued to say that she “quite liked” labor because she had felt bad during her pregnancy.

“Because actually, it was an event that I knew there was going to be an ending to,” she explained. “But I know some people have really, really difficult times, so it’s not for everybody. No pregnancy is the same, no birth is the same.”

Additionally, Kate began meditating and deep breathing excercises, both of which helped.

“I saw the power of it really, the meditation and the deep breathing and things like that, that they teach you in hypnobirthing, when I was really sick,” she said. “I got very bad morning sickness, so I’m not the happiest of pregnant people.”

The birth of Prince Louis

 

Podcast host Fletcher later asked: “Have you had it every time or just the first time?”

“Yes, unfortunately,” Kate responded. “Lots of people have it far, far worse, but it was definitely a challenge. Not just for me but also for your loved ones around you – and I think that’s the thing – being pregnant and having a newborn baby and things like that, impacts everybody in the family.”

In 2015, Princess Charlotte was born and it was two years later that William and Kate decided it was time for a third. On September 4, 2017, the pair announced the Princess of Wales was pregnant with their third child.

Prince Louis was born on April 23, 2018 at Lindo Wing at London St. Mary’s Hospital, just like his older siblings.

“Her Royal Highness the Duchess of Cambridge was safely delivered of a son at 1101hrs. The baby weighs 8lbs 7oz. The Duke of Cambridge was present for the birth. Her Royal Highness and her child are both doing well,” the statement read.

Just seven hours after being born, Prince Louis was presented to the world. Yet before his birth, Prince William and Kate Middleton had been warned about having a third child.

According to Marie Claire, during a 2017 tour in Poland and Germany, Kate was given a baby toy in the Polish capital and told William: “We’ll just have to have more babies.”

Kate Middleton and Prince William was w:arned about having a third child

However, not all was onboard with the idea. The Executive Director President Anne Green Carter Dillard of the children’s organization Having Kids – which promotes a “sustainable and child-centered family planned mode” – urged Prince William and Kate Middleton to rethink their decision.

In an open letter to the royals, Dillard emphasized the importance of small families for the world’s resources.

 

“As you know and appreciate, the example the British Royal Family sets is extremely influential. Many studies also show that public figures serve as effective role models when it comes to family planning. Your discussion of having a larger family raises compelling issues of sustainability and equity,” the letter read.

“Large families are not sustainable.”

Kate Middleton has reminisced about her early days of motherhood a lot of times. While visiting the Royal Surrey County Hospital’s postnatal ward in 2022, she said of Louis: “I keep thinking Louis is a baby but he’s a big boy now. It just feels like yesterday.”

In addition, Kate Middleton explained that giving birth was a “shock to the system,” and that it doesn’t matter how well prepared you might be.

“No matter how much everyone tells you what you expect, it’s a shock to the system, isn’t it?” Kate told some mothers at the hospital

“You have this idea of what will happen but every single birth is different.”

The Princess of Wales craved odd food when pregnant with Prince Louis

Amy Stubbs, deputy director of midwifery at Royal Surrey County Hospital told People that the princess really connected with the new parents she spoke to at the hospital.

“She was very relatable. She talked a lot about how it felt for her when she became a mother,” Stubbs said.

“She just really talked about her own children including how they chose their names. A lot of the new mums and dads are thinking about how to choose names for their babies, and they spoke with her about how Kate and William made their choice.”